In this society in which man has built a level of civilization, that every moment we are faced with a flood of options and let us engage and occupy our time. The speed with which information flows impresses even a man like me, that my 47 year old and working more than 15 years and with information technology is seen charmed and attracted by the lights of technological devices that attract, enchant and involve , absorbing us. The time, being a sum of moments that points inexorably forward and gives us opportunity to grab certain times or lose them forever in eternity past. One of the painful truths of this society is the distraction offered by the technology that produces alienation and isolation “shared”, so that we feel socially included and lonely in our individuality. Painfully admit that society is excessively connected, individualized and solitary, are insights that causes discomfort that calls for a reflection immediately. I remember my childhood, we were eight children, four girls and four boys. My mother, when took us to the the town center, going to meet all my old father and this taken by a rigorous zeal was immediately count the children to make sure that none were left behind or lost between the crowd of passersby, which was not much at that time. They, my father and mother were with us in guiding, leading, teaching, admonishing, correcting and above all loving us. The electronic device closer to us, at that time, was the traffic signal at road junctions between streets, that my old father, and stopped all ready with his strong voice, in that place, taught us saying my dear mother; “- Jurema pay attention whenever crossing a street look both ways to see if there is any car”, he exclaimed. The dialogue during the whole path was surrounded by curiosity and explanations which he promptly gave us. Life was simpler, life was more pleasant! Today when we met, my brothers and I, every moment we are photographing or filming and posting on the web or checking messages box email and accessing social networks. Confront me with a reality in which we are losing human contact, technological change requires us to have a phenomenal ability to quickly type long texts not to be bowled over for subject. The technological frenzy takes us completely and we need to keep the phone always connected, even when touching interrupt a dialogue between you and the person you love. Even if you forget your cell phone in any room in your home, your little son, yet he do not understand completely, it will take you to your device like a handset oxygenation. Any game or social network is more important than sharing a few moments with the children. The neglect of daily rituals, the kiss in their cheeks, cuddle, hug and true expressions of love are only answered by a quick, “Uh huh, uh huh”. When we stopped at the time of the apex our relationship with the electronic device, the feel bothered by those who love us. The headquarters connection exposes us to danger, meeting, reading and responding to messages on a traffic signal and it all lost … lost time, true human connections, memories, know and be known by the person we love and even in little moments of lucidity left us just a miserable feeling of regret. I as a father and professional that I am, I have faced this challenge every day, I try to be mindful that my hands are free, but I confess it is not easy, the whole world is connected, communication with my work is important and must be available at any time. I have done a herculean effort not to sacrifice my relationship with the people I love. I have taken the time to look into the eyes of my daughters and be fully present, stroking her hair and say how much I love them, hold your hands, make them lie down on my chest so you hear the beating of my heart, toss kisses the distance and as a reward, I see their faces being lit by a smile tasty. I tease them and love hearing your laughter, interspersed with motifs, “Let go of me Daddy!”, my heart are reborn. In this brief reflection I can say that booking a time with real human connections, ie not virtualized, is a factory that produces a good memories eternal connection between you and the person whom you love, the flow of life energy is restored, love blooms, the meaning of things appears and in it is there happiness. Among all the things I wrote and all the things that said, they can only come to fruition … When your hands are free!